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BackSlash
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Galactic Navy
Joined: March 23, 2003
Posts: 11183
From: Bristol, England
|  Posted: 2006-01-12 06:50
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. Thanks in advance guys.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night something odd happened. She had come over to play DS and had forgotten to sign off of AIM after she left. It was whilst I was going through her buddy list that I noticed my frigate had been destroyed by a scout.
Should I stick with frigs or should I go directly to cruisers?
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Ants
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Joined: February 11, 2005
Posts: 315
From: Canada
| Posted: 2006-01-12 07:48
Jack in my mind Mellymoo is best to answer that one...
Good Luck
and ya scout on scout is best
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JRE
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Joined: August 14, 2003
Posts: 570
| Posted: 2006-01-12 07:48
[ This Message was edited by: John (JRE) on 2006-01-12 14:22 ]
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Drafell
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Joined: May 30, 2003
Posts: 2449
From: United Kingdom
| Posted: 2006-01-12 08:09
Drafell, The DS Psycho says:-
This is a tough decision - especially with the level of emotional turmoil you are going through. The only real answer that anyone can give is that you must do what you feel is right.
Is changing really an act of necessity, or are you subconsciously trying to compensate for other feelings of inadequacy within your life?
What I think you need right now is stability in your relationship - changing so drastically as a reaction to such an event is never a good idea. Many rushed decisions end up hurting you more and you need to take the time to carefully evaluate the adviseablilty of any such change or confrontation with your inner turmoil.
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*** URGENT NOTICE for BackSlash *Jack* ***
BackSlash *Jack* is hereby issued with a Careless n00bie in charge of Frigate penalty notice.
UGTO high-command is highly distressed at such ignorant behaviour when piloting one of its prized vessels. Any such further neglect when in charge of a UGTO fleet vessel will result in immediate demotion to the rank of Extractor Cabin Boy.
Have a nice day.
Grand Chancellor Mato
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BackSlash
Marshal
Galactic Navy
Joined: March 23, 2003
Posts: 11183
From: Bristol, England
| Posted: 2006-01-12 09:15
This was a joke guys...
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Doran
Chief Marshal
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Joined: March 29, 2003
Posts: 4032
From: The Gideon Unit
| Posted: 2006-01-12 10:05
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On 2006-01-12 06:50, BackSlash *Jack* wrote:
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. Thanks in advance guys.
Should I stick with frigs or should I go directly to cruisers?
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frigates. inty's a nasty little peice of work
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James Bum007
Grand Admiral
Pitch Black
Joined: April 23, 2003
Posts: 480
From: Queens, New York
| Posted: 2006-01-12 11:00
I guess I was the only one who got that joke Jack. Stick to frigates.
"Nough Said"
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Sardaukar
Admiral
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Joined: October 08, 2002
Posts: 1656
| Posted: 2006-01-12 12:19
You shouldn't be complaining, bud. Mine's an old, obese cow and all she does these days is crash into things and spit out "little ones"... but I still love Aggie Court.
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Fattierob
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Joined: April 25, 2003
Posts: 4059
| Posted: 2006-01-12 13:06
Backy, until I read that last sentence, you had me tearing up.
and now, I cannot stop laughing.
thanks again, jerk 
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Borgie
Chief Marshal
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Joined: August 15, 2005
Posts: 2256
From: close by
| Posted: 2006-01-12 13:38
lol stick with scouts tehre harder to shoot
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Enterprise
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Joined: May 19, 2002
Posts: 2576
From: Hawthorne, Nevada
| Posted: 2006-01-12 14:27
Because no one else is taking this topic seriously... not really anyways.
I will be.
In all the truth, shes either cheating on you, or she values her private life a great deal.
But...all you have to go on is suspicions and circumstance. Until you find true hard evidence (generally your own eyes and presence works wonders) never, ever, neverforneverever go directly about it because the torrent of angst from her - even if your calm about it - will be one very unpleasant experience.
In other words, if it will end on something like that, at least let it be a situation where you come out on top. =P
But, in the chance that you are entirely wrong about this (I mean, find real good evidence that she isnt having an affair), then, then it would be best to at that point raise what you had thought about it - as its only right. =D
-Ent
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BackSlash
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Joined: March 23, 2003
Posts: 11183
From: Bristol, England
| Posted: 2006-01-12 14:33
My fiancé just left me, I don't thinl I'll be in a dating mood for a while
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Veronw
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Joined: December 13, 2004
Posts: 554
| Posted: 2006-01-12 14:37
lol
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Lacrosseian
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Joined: October 01, 2004
Posts: 1254
| Posted: 2006-01-12 15:53
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On 2006-01-12 14:37, Veronw wrote:
lol
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/me slaps Veronw
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Shigernafy
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Joined: May 29, 2001
Posts: 5726
From: The Land of Taxation without Representation
| Posted: 2006-01-12 16:00
I was really hoping ent's last words would be something like ".. and that's why, clearly, destroyers are the best class of ship."
But no, he really did take it seriously! What's wrong with you guys?
(Jack, I got it, and laughed.. just couldn't think of a suitably witty reply)
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