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Tbone
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From: Vancouver
|  Posted: 2007-07-28 01:18
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On 2007-07-27 14:02, Fatal Command*CO* wrote:
a 3 way seems the best solution to me.But.....thats me.
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Perhaps the only message coming from you I'll ever approve of.
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Hitman23
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From: WoW
| Posted: 2007-07-28 06:47
I would definately put those wedding plans on hold. Do you fight with your current g/f? Are you unhappy with your current g/f? If you are truly unhappy right now, I would leave. Life is too short.
We all love, "the new". "The new" is something different, something exciting, something that gets the heart pounding. The problem with "the new" is right after we get what we want it turns into "the old".
If you are happy with your current g/f and the only thing coming between you is "the new" then stay.
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Mystikal
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Joined: December 30, 2001
Posts: 216
| Posted: 2007-07-28 09:51
Holy ^?%#!&#~ batman, you walk a fine line across rules one and two, ebaumsworld will not be pleased.
Also, tl;dr OPs post.
[ This Message was edited by: UberSoldat [Formerly Mystikal] on 2007-07-28 09:53 ]
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Enterprise
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Joined: May 19, 2002
Posts: 2576
From: Hawthorne, Nevada
| Posted: 2007-07-28 10:04
I hold no resonsbility over my actions.
Ebaumsworld haxxored my account.
Also, unlike Ebaums, LANGUAGE FOOL. RoC plx.
-Ent
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| Posted: 2007-07-28 10:16
eBaums did Enterprise!
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From: happy land
| Posted: 2007-07-28 11:27
just go with the one thats rich
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| Posted: 2007-07-28 11:36
How about you forget them both and marry me!
Just kidding...
So, your'e into chivalry eh?
I would say, if you're unhappy; move on. There is no doubt in my mind your current girlfriend/fiance will be extremely upset, but sooner or later you will both realise staying in an unhappy relationship is unhealthy, and will drag you both down farther than if you had stayed in the relationship.
I wish I would have left my last relationship when I became unhappy... now Im out 900 bucks, and have more insecurities than you will ever imagine.
On the other hand, if you're happy; stay with her. Why leave something that is already wonderful? You're having a baby, man! You know this woman loves you already, so why leave for someone who may not feel the same way as you do?
You're the only one that can make the decision, and unfortunately its a big one. Just please, don't regret whatever decision you make!
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Koda
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Posts: 1384
| Posted: 2007-07-28 21:55
Its time to grow up, its no longer about you. I know your going to read this and think stfu. but, What kind of message would that send to her if you left her? She's good enough for the meantime? Lets say she isnt pregnant, and you dont have a Son on the way. You go off with this new girl, and then you find another, and then another.. Is it ever going to be good enough?
my advice, get some professional counseling. You dont have to tell anyone, but you have a serious problem that will manifest it self years down the road, that may make you resentful towards her. Your right in seeking advice. But my advice to you, and anyone who is reading this, Get this generation "Me,Me,Me" crap out of your thinking process. Immediate Gratification is Not in your Better Interest.
-my 2 cents
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Lark of Serenity
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| Posted: 2007-07-28 22:52
... quite the question to bring to a video game discussion board... but alright...
A) do you feel that you do not love your current partner?
B) do you feel that you truly care more for this other woman or that you are just interested in someone who is taking an interest in you for the sake of responding?
C) do you feel that one will make you happier over the other?
D) are you happy right now?
morally speaking, running out on a fiance and kid is a pretty dumb thing to do. on the other hand, if you *know* for certain that youre probably going to do it later, ie. you dont really have any feelings for the woman youre with (you really shouldnt have had a baby with her in that case eh?), its probably best to leave her now instead of subject a child to arguments and a breakup. *IF* you choose this route, i suggest you be responsible enough to financially support your former partner for a few years.
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| Posted: 2007-07-28 22:53
You stay. Leaving that child fatherless would be a horrible thing to do.
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thundercat984
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From: southern us
| Posted: 2007-07-29 00:35
Good God I can't believe I posted that stuff up for all to see. Must have been reading to many post from a certain fleet mate, to make me think this kinda post would fly. Well for those that actually cared 'preciate it. For the rest that used this as an oppertunity to poke fun at me....I really can't blame you.
If any are interested when it's all said and done, I suspect I'll stay where I'm at and just well...deal. The ships sailed and it's to late to leave it now, without regrets. Besides if I was to leave I wouldn't get to name the baby. What do you think Snarf or Liono:) ?
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Lord DowneyBUM (UK)
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From: London England
| Posted: 2007-07-30 04:41
The french foreign legion is a great career, no questions aked.
Join up now.
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| Posted: 2007-07-30 06:12
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Your cool points just went up several stocks 
Ya made the right choice lad.
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LAG
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From: Margaritaville
| Posted: 2007-07-30 06:17
Oh this is an easy one... ...introduce both women to each other!
It's going to go one of 2 ways, just make sure you're very, very clear that your interested in both of them. Could be lots of fun and spice up the relationship(s). Party!! 
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| Posted: 2007-07-30 08:30
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On 2007-07-30 06:12, Coeus wrote:
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Your cool points just went up several stocks
Ya made the right choice lad.
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I was just about to post the same thing. I agree with this man fully.
-Ent
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